This is going to be a very hard post to post...and there will be a lot of pictures...
My Grandpa Arnell passed away on October 4th. I'm happy I was able to be up here to say good-bye to him...I waited at the hospital with my mom while they took him off life support and let him slip away on his own. It was an amazing and spiritual experience. He lived a full life, totally dedicated to his family and the church. He was an amazing man. It won't be the same without him here, but I know that the reunion between him and my grandma was one of the happiest it could have ever been. He loved her so much, and served her with unconditional love through her years with Alzheimer's. He loved serving in the temple, and loved his family. He had 10 kids, 46 grandchildren and 60 great grand children...and he had all of their names memorized! Even though I was one of 46, he still made me feel special and would give me a hug and a kiss whenever he saw me, and ask how I was doing.
I also got to get to know him a little better when Charles and I were dating, becuase I would stay at his house when I went up to see him. We had a lot of good conversations.
He was an amazing man.
And I'll miss him a lot!
Here are some pictures from the viewing on Sunday night, October 9th...
Grandpa requested that his body be placed in a separate room, and that visiting take place in another room. When I first heard that, I thought it was a strange request, but then, as I went in to see Grandpa, I was grateful for the quiet and solitude of that small room so I could feel his spirit.
Plus, we can get really loud when we're all together...

Sabrina and her son... (a cousin)

Dustin and Scott (a cousin)

Trying to keep the kids quiet and contained was no small feat...

More cousins...

James, Laura and Paul (cousin and aunt and uncle)

Dallas and Taylor and more cousins! (and Aunt Melanie on the end)

Nick...

Trying, once again, to keep the kids entertained...

Jason sat in this chair, and realized he was a little too big...
The funeral on October 10th was a wonderful funeral. (can funerals be wonderful?) The talks that were given were very spiritual and I learned a lot about Grandpa (but, becuase he liked to share stories of his past with us, I knew most of them)

The Pallbearers were the oldest grandsons from each family...

My oldest brother, Dan, is the back left...




Because he served in the military (He was a captain) he was given full military honors...Here's the person playing Taps getting ready...

Saluting...

Folding the flag...



Uncle Jeff, the oldest son, received the flag. At Grandpa's request, all his children were given a responsibility (i.e. Miriam gave the family prayer, Stuart dedicated the grave site, Melanie is in charge of keeping up the grave site) and Jeff was given the flag.

Pallbearers laying their flowers on the casket...



Saying final good-byes...

Grandpa and Elora...

One last picture...The only one missing is Chad.

Then the luncheon, and some silly grandkids... eating rolls....


Silly Kids!

Couldn't resist a couple of cute pictures of my my cute girls (Ethan was running around somewhere)

It was wonderful to be able to see our families again, and that's what Grandpa would want to instill in us, the importance of family, and the Gospel. He left a great legacy!